Wednesday, November 25, 2020

A 2020 Christmas Miracle



    



     Thank goodness there is only one more month in this this horrid year of 2020. Chinese people have labeled this the year of the rat and I believe most Americans would agree. Fear, panic, stress all seem to go right along with words like pandemic, elections, racial tension, and toilet paper. 

     For me, it began on a positive note as my husband, Joe, planned a retirement for early March. We looked forward to a nice visit to see his brother in Arizona with a trip to the Grand Canyon…  on my Bucket list for years. We sensed the severity of the situation when we returned to a near quiet Atlanta airport only 2 days before the national shutdown.  Scary to say the least.

     Having lived through the drop in our 401K and the shortage of hand sanitizer, we became accustomed to the social distance stance and those dreadful masks. We added Zoom to our list of technology proficiencies and we became familiar with worship on Facetime live. I even joined several internet Bible studies that included women from around the United State, an experience I would not have encountered had we not been a country in crisis. For that I am grateful. Grateful that God would provide an outlet during a time when my only trip outside was to have groceries loaded in the back of my car by an essential worker at a food store.

      Yes, through all the negative events of 2020, there have been an abundance of positive actions as well. God is still in control. 

      Last night I had the privilege of witnessing one of those encouraging events in person. Santa paid a visit to my house with four little kiddos waiting anxiously for his arrival. 

     What makes his visit so remarkable lies in the past.  You see, we have not always been a family that would celebrate together. Like most families, we have had our differences. There have been hurts, accusation, even divorces, but for one night, just a few hours, we were able to set aside our differences and let four little children enjoy the magic of Christmas together, with no arguing, no harsh words, no accusations. Just the love of Christmas.

     I have been asking God to give me wisdom and tell me how to love others, even those who don’t always agree with my ideas. Last night He taught me a great lesson. Last night God showed up at my door and this time he was wearing a Santa suit.

Monday, October 19, 2020

Life Lessons from Liggy

     





   I lost my precious dog Liggy last night. She was one special Yorkie who did nothing but love me. She came to me through Rilynne’s other grandmother. Kristi was looking for a home for her and had originally given her to a neighbor but once I saw her, I fell in love with her. Kristi had said she was bringing the dog by for Rilynne to see but I thought she said it was Rilynne’s dog so I was attached to her immediately. We worked things out but Joe was not too happy about our arrangement. He thought it was too close to the time of losing our Bugsy and he wasn’t ready to make the move to another dog. But something about Liggy endeared me even more to Bugsy. They were both small dogs, both had a loving nature, and they both made that same Ewok sound.

        Her original owner had named her Little Girl but I just couldn’t call her that, after all we already had a Precious. I toyed with her name for some time and finally decided I would use the initials LG since my grandmother had said it was bad luck to change a dog’s name. Now if you said LG really fast it sounded like Liggy, so that’s what it became. She was my one-of-a-kind pal.

        The only other dog I had that was truly mine was a little dog I named Babs. Mother had taken my brother, Levi, and me to the Birmingham Humane Society to let us adopt an animal since we needed some comfort after she and our dad had divorced. I immediately fell for Babs and Levi adopted a beagle mix he named Daisy. Since we didn’t have a lot of money and the required visit to the vet was not a must back then, we brought the dogs home with just a basic deworming and shots from the Humane Society. Babs developed distemper and she didn’t last very long since she was a tiny little dog. I remember the day in junior high when my mother picked me up from school and said she had some news to tell me. I completed her sentence before she even had time. “Babs is dead, isn’t she?” I don’t think I ever got over that little dog so when Liggy came around it brought back some fond memories of the short time I had with a dog of my very own.

         Liggy was a year and a half old when we got her, so she was already house trained…well, not exactly. That is the one thing Joe disliked about her behavior. I made up excuses like, she ate too late, or she couldn’t help it, but I knew she only went out when she felt like it. She was a stubborn little pup.

          Liggy loved to taunt the bigger dogs. My son’s huge Rhodesian Ridgeback was terrified of my little 8-pound, barking, ball of fur. If Liggy came up during Vader’s free run at the church property, Jeff’s huge 70-pound mutt would make a beeline straight back to the car. I have honestly seen him shudder at Liggy’s “ferocious” bark.

           And our two new rescue dogs didn’t catch a break either. When I would give all three of them a rawhide chew, the bigger dogs would devour their treats in a few minutes which gave Liggy the perfect opportunity to wave her treasure in their faces. I loved to give them all a rawhide straw and watch Liggy carry hers in her mouth just like a cigar. She’d growl her Ewok growl when either canine came near.

            Most of all, Liggy loved to ride. She was just born that way. Any time I started to put on my shoes, she would start her barking tirade to go with me. She would prance around in a circle and give the most annoying yap until she got my attention. I took her everywhere I could. If she was not able to go, I’d simply say, “I’ll be right back,” and she’d know it wasn’t possible and stop her barking. I’d say that’s pretty smart for any dog.

            She loved to travel to the lake where she had free reign in the surrounding yards. Most of the time no one was home so she could go wherever she pleased. My only grumble was when she wanted out at night to do her thing. I was afraid to let her out by herself after Precious died so I’d have to stand on the deck and wait for her.

           Liggy loved riding in the boat, too. When we’d beach it to take a swim, she’s be right in there with us. She always swam toward me with her life jacket on since I didn’t fully trust her swimming abilities. She was on the upper end of a Yorkie’s weight range, just like her human mama (me).

            I certainly learned a lot from Liggy. There are life lessons we can all learn from our animals. In fact, the world today would be a much better place if we all could be a little more like our furry friends.

           One lesson I learned from Liggy was the meaning of unconditional love. If I was mad, she loved me. If I was sad, she loved me. If I screamed at her for having an accident on the carpet, she still loved me. I didn’t have to think like her, act like her, or be like her, she just loved me.

           Liggy taught me how to live in the moment. If I returned home, she was happy to see me. If I came back from the mailbox, she was happy to see me. If we went on a walk, she was happy to be with me.  She didn’t think about what I had done in the past, she didn’t care what I was going to do. She just loved me for what I was then and there.

          And Liggy taught me how to enjoy a meal and a good nap. She would bark for her evening meal between 7:30 and 8:00 every night. It didn’t matter if we were in the middle of a great movie, watching a weather alert, or if the Crimson Tide had just scored a touchdown, the girl wanted her meal and she wanted it NOW. Most any other time she could be found taking a nap on the blue blanket in her spot in the laundry room. I buried her in her blue blanket.

        So, life is sad for me now, and lonely since I had never realized how much my Liggy was my constant companion. I still cry now and then and I probably will for a bit longer. When I reach my final reward, I will have many questions to ask Jesus, but this one will be the first: Why do dogs only live such a short time? I find comfort in what the Psalmist wrote in Psalms 36:6 “Your righteousness is like the highest mountains, your justice like the great deep. You, LORD, preserve both people and animals.” NIV

         I am touched by what her groomer said when I text her. She reminded me of how sweet Liggy was and how honored she was to have been her hairdresser. In her words, “May God bring you comfort. He’s already granted her peace next to His side waiting for you till we are all together again.” And she added, “At least she went over the Rainbow Bridge with a fresh haircut.”